Building Self Esteem
and Self Confidence
What is your overall evaluation of your own self worth?
There is a difference between self esteem and self confidence. One builds upon the other, and when a person possesses these two traits, the benefits are powerful and life-changing.
Self confidence is a trait that starts to build up from childhood. It is the ability of recognizing and acknowledging one’s capability in any endeavor. This trait often develops from within, with the support of the people you grew up with, mainly your parents, teachers and other significant adults in your life.
A person who is self confident is certain that the things he/she needs to do will be done accordingly, without being doubtful or needing to be affirmed by others.
Self Esteem, on the other hand, is your own overall perception of your value as a person.
It is how you regard yourself with respect to your endeavors, relationships, and social status.
This can also develop from childhood depending on how the people around you perceived and treated you.
The interesting thing about these two traits is that they create a self-fulfilling cycle in which one builds onto the other. Thus, the more self confidence you have, the higher your self esteem will be and viceversa.
Factors In Building Self Esteem And Self Confidence.
There are several factors that affect the build-up of these traits.
If a child lives in a motivating and affirming environment, he/she is most likely to grow up confident and highly esteemed. On the other hand, a hostile and critical environment instills fear and rejection, insecurities and other factors that erode self confidence.
A child’s growing up years may either boost or lower his/her levels of self confidence and self esteem. Traumatic events in life such as separation and death can greatly affect him/her. Even physical attributes and mental capabilities can create a dent on self confidence and self esteem.
People who come in contact with a child or young adult also influence these traits.
Even adults are not spared from losing -or gaining- confidence and self esteem. The family and immediate circle of influence are the basic support systems of every person in developing these traits.
To succeed in any life endeavor, it becomes crucial that a person possesses these characteristics to become better prepared in facing the challenges that go with life.
Motivation, respect, love caring, and understanding play very important roles in personality development.
Do not underestimate the power of these factors in your goal towards happiness and success. While there are unavoidable circumstances in life, taking stock of oneself allows a more open and accepting attitude of these adversities.
Fortunately, self esteem and self confidence are malleable, meaning, we can always work on improving them.
How To Build Your Self Esteem And Self Confidence
Self confidence will unleash your potential to turn adversities into opportunities. Self esteem reverses the negative perceptions that pull you down. Remember that the values you have for yourself will be the basis for the way other people perceive and value you. It is you who is in charge of setting the parameters for others to value, respect and even admire you.
Here are a few points to remember and put into practice...
Remember, self development is an on-going process
. Learning to know your capabilities and strengths and your weaknesses as well as accepting them will determine the kind of person you become. Love yourself
so you will be able to love others.
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