BIO
John Peace's business background is in catering. He used to run a number of successful Hotels and Restaurants in the top end of the market. John was introduced to the Law of Attraction about 10 years ago, at a time when his own business was going through some major difficulties... but found it difficult to master these ideas, so he decided to master the Law and eventually succeeded at it.
Having now unlocked the power of the Law of Attraction, John now spends 100% of his time helping people come to terms with their own reality, and changing their lives for the better.
Hello John!
What is the best of this moment?
What is the best of this experience as a whole?
What positives has this reality brought to me?
List these things, think about these things, be grateful for these things, and whenever a thought or feeling enters your mind that contradicts these things, switch to the thoughts and feelings that are of the best of NOW.
When you come to terms with who you are and where you are NOW, you can start to define where you want to be tomorrow.
That is an excellent piece of advise, John. Why would you say that it is so important to come to terms with where you are now?
Many people will tell you that if you want to attract something, you must first visualize your desire, you must then feel as if you already had your desire, and as you focus your thoughts and feelings on having your desire now, it will become a reality.As a process, this is true, but when you are in a reality of not having the things you want, and you only attempt to change your focus, you will find manifesting very difficult.
The Law of Attraction will bring you what you vibrate, and by ""vibrate I mean your most predominant thoughts and feelings.
Let's take wanting to attract more money as an example. If you have an experience of not enough, then you have a vibration of not enough. When I say a vibration of not enough, I mean that your predominant thoughts and feelings would be of fear of lack of money.
Similarly, if you have an experience of just getting by, then you have a vibration of just getting by, or your predominant thoughts and feelings would be those of just get by.
If you are experiencing either of these situations, then a method is obviously needed to change the unwanted experience and you do this by changing your predominant thoughts and feelings. That is, change the vibration of "not enough" to match the vibration of your desire.
Many would tell you to visualize, emotionalize, talk, act and pretend, that your desired experience was your reality now. But how can you do that when you have to face the difficulties of the reality of the lack you have now?
You see the real secret to changing your reality, is at first, "accepting your reality as it is."
I know that sounds a bit confusing, especially when you are continually being told to focus on what you want, but believe me, until you accept your reality in the NOW, no matter what you focus on, it will never come about.
This is because when you don't become aware of -and accept- your present thoughts and feelings, and all you try to do is focus on what you want, you are never really changing your vibration.
All you'd be doing is defining where you are (in lack) and where you want to be, and noticing, thinking, and feeling, how bad the difference between these realities feels. Then, you create a reality that holds these two places apart, making you feel exactly how you have been feeling.
No amount of acting and pretending will ever get you to what you are acting and pretending about. Accept where you are today, and become happy, satisfied and content with where you are and what you have NOW. Then focus on where you are going.
Thoughts of lack, sponsor a reality of lack, and it is really important that you redefine the thoughts about the lack that you are experiencing, so that they cease to sponsor more lack into your future.
That’s fine when it comes to money, but do you think that the same process could apply to relationships?
When it comes to relationships of any kind, it is common for many, if not most people, to spend their time focusing on the unwanted way that people behave.If you ever hear anyone talking about their work colleges, their bosses, their friends, their partners, their children, or anyone who they are in contact with, it is usual for many people to point out the worst behaviors of these people.
And they usually use their complaining as their excuse for not being happy, here’s what I mean.
... work would be much better if my boss wasn’t so mean, or my colleges weren’t so bitchy, or if the customers were more patient.
... my husband/wife would be a better companion if he/she gave me more attention, was more interested in what I did, or if he/she did more around the house.
What they are saying, in each of these examples is this…
“My life experience is negative because what they do doesn't match my desires. If they changed their behavior, I would be happier and no longer feel this negative emotion.”
What they are failing to understand here is this…
“The negative emotion they have, is the cause of the negative behavior they see, and as much as they push against their unwanted experiences, the stronger they bring these experiences in to their reality.”
This is how the Law of Attraction works. The negative emotion is your vibration, and it is through that vibration, that all matching harmonious conditions are brought into your experience.
To try and change an experience by chasing away the people who are bringing that experience, will only bring more people to give you that same experience.
If you wish to change an experience, then the only action you need to take is to change the feelings that you have toward that experience; and then, as the Law of Attraction matches all harmonious vibrations, the new experience creates your "new" vibration and that shall be brought into your reality.
So should you still do the exercise you recommended above of writing down all the goods things in your relationship?
Yes absolutely, but please understand that you are not trying to change a reality, you are not trying to get someone to do something, what you are doing is adjusting your vibration to match the best that someone has to offer.And as you become a vibrational match to this preferred behavior, it will enable them to offer you a match to your vibration. Or… In much the same way, if they are not a harmonious match to your positive vibration, they could vibrate right out of your reality.
But I wouldn’t stop there. I would do this exercise of writing down all the goods things in all your relationships.
How could you best sum up your principles to applying the Law of Attraction to your life?
Here it is in a sentence: Focus your thoughts and feelings on the best of what you observe and experience. With time, this focus will become your belief, will become a vibration within you, and as you vibrate in tune of the best of what you see, the best of "what is" shall be aligned to you, as the best experience there is.You have said it beautifully, John. However, as simple as this is, many people need guidance into changing their realities. Can you share more about your training program that helps people become aligned with their wanted reality?
Sure thing. My training program is called Unlock The Power of You and it is a 4 part program to help people to discover exactly what they need to do to get the Law of Attraction to finally work in their favor.Unfortunately there is no ‘one fits all’ method to mastering these ideas as so many commentaries would have people think, and I have done my utmost to ensure that whatever someone’s circumstances are today, by simply following a set of step-by-step exercises, they will uncover exactly what they need to do to change their experiences of tomorrow.
"Raising Your Vibration" is the very first step and in my 30-Day To Unlock The Power Workbook, you will discover exactly how to do this.
Each day of this program presents a new lesson that deals with actual real life situations. These lessons will help you change your unwanted experiences, as you learn to apply the Law of Attraction to specific problems.
Each daily lesson is followed by a series of Exercises to "Raise Your Vibration." These exercises are easy to understand, and simple to do, and as you complete each step, you will see the positive changes in your life.
This workbook is available as a separate part of my full program because many people may very well be practicing very powerful methods to manifest their desires, but because of their vibration towards their reality now, their dreams are never realized.
The next part of my training is the "Unlock The Power QuickStart" program. This part of the course uncovers the Law of Attraction blocks. These are limiting beliefs that people may have (possibly from a young age), that stop them from mastering the Law of Attraction. And not only will they uncover these blocks, but they will also discover how to remove them completely and substitute them for positives.
There are also lessons on how to effectively use emotion to attract desires. The Law of Attraction reacts to emotions and feelings, and once these techniques are combined with any manifestation tools, the whole process gets speed.
I am offering my readers Free Access to the Unlock The Power of You QuickStart program, so they can sample what the course is about. After completing the QuickStart program and a short reading section, comes the final step, the Unlock The Power Lessons.
This is an Advanced Law of Attraction Training Course using Video, eBooks, and Audios. These lessons show us that our reality is truly a reflection of our thoughts and beliefs. That what we think, feel and focus on, become our experiences.
And as we become more aware and gain control of these thoughts, we will start to create the reality we desire.
Thank you, John, for this interview
and for sharing your insight!
